Never Say These Things To Your Spouse Or Suffer the Consequences (71-80)
Questions Used To Attack (sneaky), or Express An Opinion
In this section there are a number of questions that simply aren't meant as real requests for information from your partner or coworker. While they can be used for that purpose, they almost always express a judgment. The other person will feel judged, and that's why they will react to these questions with anger or resentment, or even hurt feelings.
Why Can't You Be More Like...?
Why Is This Such A Big Deal To You?
Why Should I Apologize...I Didn't Do Anything
Why Would I Be Upset...Just Because...