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Rules for Constructive Fighting By na - 17 rules for constructive fighting may shake up your beliefs about what fighting in relationships is all about and how to prevent damage. (Added: 21-Jul-2015 Hits: 1081 )

25 Ways to Fight Fair (Christian Oriented) By na - 25 rules seems a lot to remember, but all the research suggests that couples who fight fair are MUCH more likely to succeed. Check 'em out. Go over them with your spouse or partner. (Added: 20-Jun-2014 Hits: 1135 )

37 Rules to Fighting Fair By na - OMG, this probably breaks a record: a list of 37 rules for fighting fair, but a lot of good ones. Print it and put on your fridge. (Added: 20-Jun-2014 Hits: 1602 )

Cool: The Nine Rules of Fighting Fairly That You Can Stick On Your Refrigerator Door By Nathan Cobb - Remind yourself, your partner, your family how to fight so you don't hurt each other. Print it, stick it on your fridge, or somewhere all can see it. It's free. (Added: 30-May-2014 Hits: 1189 )

Fair Fighting Rules for Couples By Nathan Cobb - Excellent summary of NINE rules to follow, particularly in marriages and couples, so you can have disagreements and arguments without damaging your relationship. (Added: 30-May-2014 Hits: 1192 )

Dr. - Advice - How to Fight Fair By Dr. Phil - I'm not a Dr. Phil fan but if you are, and you are looking for a really short summary of some fair fighting techniques take a look at this 2 minute read. (Added: 30-May-2014 Hits: 1962 )

10 Rules for Friendly Fighting for Couples By MARIE HARTWELL-WALKER - For some people, this is a truly radical idea: There is no need to fight with your partner. Ever. Accusations, recriminations, character assassination, threats, name-calling, and cursing, whether delivered at top volume or with a quiet sarcastic sneer, damage a relationship, often irrevocably. Nobody needs to be a monster or to be treated monstrously. Nobody who yells will ever be heard. In the heat of a moment, it is always a choice whether to go for a run or run your partner down. On the other hand, no two people in the world, no matter how made for each other they feel, will ever agree about everything at all times. (It would be quite boring if they did.) Couples do need to be able to negotiate differences. They do need to have room for constructive criticism. They do need a way to assert opinions and to disagree. And they do need to have a way to express intense feelings (that the other person may not understand or support) without feeling that they will be judged as lacking for doing so. (Added: 30-May-2014 Hits: 1137 )

Fighting Fair to Resolve Conflict By University of Texas - Great overview of what fighting fair is, what dirty fighting involves, and how destructive it is, and a step by step guide to improving how you handle disagreements and conflict. (Added: 30-May-2014 Hits: 1157 )

It's Unfair Not to Fight - But "Fight Right" By Matthew D. Turvey - Something a little different, the article suggests that allowing things, disagreements to pass undiscussed, and swept under the carpet is really "Unfair" to the relationship. Good logic here. (Added: 30-May-2014 Hits: 1022 )

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